One of the magic tricks of the human brain is this: What you look for, you find. That goes for good news, bad news, and blue Toyota Camrys (if you happen to be in the market for one).

When’s the last time someone pointed out what you were doing…right? Easier question: When was the last time someone gave you a suggestion for improvement? Probably five minutes ago.

We love to get things right. Stick the landing. Nail it. Sometimes we do. Often, we don’t.