When’s the last time someone pointed out what you were doing…right? Easier question: When was the last time someone gave you a suggestion for improvement? Probably five minutes ago.

We love to get things right. Stick the landing. Nail it. Sometimes we do. Often, we don’t.

With so much out of our control these days, it’s easy to think that the way to feel “better” is to exert more control. But if you ask Judith Orloff, M.D.